🔮TAROT TUESDAY 👽Continued 🧜🏽♀️👉🏽It’s a card of self reflection ... you’re seeking clarity, balance, & truth to some situation w. someone.
This card is encouraging you to conquer your pain & overcome your suffering. Know that pain is not experienced only to make you hurt, but to let you grow, strengthen you,&provide you with a different perspective about life and love.
It represents loss and difficulties, sacrifices and endings...tough decisions&living with the consequences of your actions. More often than not, these things happen so that things will change. Things that you’re too weak to handle or too fearful to face.
It represents the need to release emotions so that you can cleanse and begin your healing process.
When it comes to love& relationships..you are suffering & in pain. Maybe it’s about a fight with your sig. other , or continuous bumping of heads . Maybe it’s the indifference &the cold silence going on for months, & no matter what you do, nothing seems to get through.
Maybe it’s the lies that never stop coming.
Maybe it’s the past that still haunts your present.
You are in pain on many different layers. You may feel like you will not get out of it alive. But know that this pain is guiding you to the right direction, &you only need to be strong and optimistic. Things will be okay in the end.
In order to survive this, you& the other person must both be ready to work through the pain&difficulties. You must both be ready to talk about your relationship. From there, things will get easier. Just take it one step at a time.
This card can also point to a love triangle. It’s not always with another woman, or another man. It can also be w. circumstances or other ppl in your lives. It can be your demanding jobs, your friends, &even your families.
Remember that pain is unavoidable. Without pain, there will be no lessons learned, & no growth to be experienced. Instead of drowning in pain, you must work with the pain to overcome obstacles & move forward to a better place.
If you deny pain, it does not make it go away, either. The best thing to do is to embrace it without wallowing in it. Let it grow you and heal you.
As I drove home from work tonight and I think back on events of today. I cannot help but be grateful. Although work was tough, I am grateful that I have a job. My body was aching and sore but I am grateful that I am healthy and alive. My marriage is not perfect but I am grateful that I can communicate my feelings and thoughts with my Husband and he listens and respects me. I mentioned to him last night that if I ever get to the point where I am angry at him for something, I want him to know and remember that I will continue to love him unconditionally.
Life is not picture perfect and social media always depicts it like it is. We struggle daily but it is good to find a silver lining in the negativity. 💕 If you are currently struggling in life, know you are not alone. Tomorrow is a new day!
No relationship is perfect, it is how you choose to appreciate it that matters most. Life is too short, if something is upsetting you in your relationship.. stand back and ask yourself if your partner was suddenly gone, would that thing still bother you or would you regret it bothering you and wish you had just enjoyed your relationship more?
Also, when you are truly in love, you need to make choices on what you can accept and live with. We as humans won't always agree on everything but it's about finding a balance. I think I'm getting wiser yano #love#relationships
People who do you wrong make you strong💪🏽. HOW? They help push you over the edge of “indifference.” You stop “hating” them and you stop giving a damn. INDIFFERENCE is the death of love. —————————————————
When you “ignore” someone, you’re still thinking about them 24/7. When you’re INDIFFERENT, you don’t notice them anymore. They’ve lost their hold 🤛🏽 on you. You’re free! To get over someone, don’t ignore them. Ignoring them will CONSUME YOU. Learn to be indifferent. The good news is that if she hates you, she STILL cares. There is hope🌿🕊.
الكراهية ليست عكس الحب لأن الكراهية رغم أنها مشاعر سلبية لكنها لا تزال “مشاعر” تشغل بالك و تعكس إهتمامك بالشخص الذي تكرهه. أما “اللامبالاة” فهي إنعدام المشاعر . اللامبالاة هي "نعي" للحب إذ تفقد المشاعر تجاه ذلك الشخص و تحرر نفسك من قبضته. عندما تريد أن تحرر نفسك من حب شخص ، لا تكرهه و لا تتحاهله لأن الكره و التجاهل يضرك أنت أكثر مما يضر الشخص الآخر. الكراهية أو التجاهل "يستحوذ" على تفكيرك ليل نهار و يؤرق نومك و يسرق راحتك. بينما "اللامبالاة" تحررك من تلك القبضة🤛🏽 (قبضة المشاعر) إلى قبضة اللا مشاعر و يصبح وجود الشخص أو عدمه سيان. مثل الإقلاع عن التدخين 🚬 🚭 هو عملية إعادة تأهيل لإبطال مفعول الإدمان. لأن "الحب" نوع من الإدمان فإحذروه. لا تُقلِع عن "الحب" بل إقلع عن الإدمان أو الإفراط في الحب. خلي الحب خادمك لا سيدك. كيف؟ خليك أمير ، لا تصير أسير .